What is your sexual fantasy?
- I dated a man years ago, while in college, who mentioned that his sexual fantasy was to have a threesome. OK. However, it wasn't OK because his fantasy quickly became a request, then a demand, then a situation that would determine the fate of our relationship. This was not a fantasy of mine or something I would even consider.
- After weeks of being pressured I pretended to conceeded and said I would only do it if it is another man in the threesome instead of a women! His smile immediately turned into disappointment and frustration, as I figured it would. I realized he was asking me to do something that he was not willing to do himself. He was willing to compromise my values for his own pleasure. Did he truly care for me? He left me for a woman that would give him the fantasy he desired. Unfortuately, he didn't stay with her either.
- He had the right to have his fantasy, unfortunatly his fantasy did not line up with mine. He was willing to leave to fulfill his fantasy and I'm glad he did. More improtantly, I'm glad I found out before it got too deep.
- Threesomes are a personal preference. The goal is not to speak against anyones fantasy but to convey a message not to go anainst who you are morally to please someone else. Stay true to who you are!!!
- Please let me know if you had any similiar experiences you would like to share.
- Live and Love Authentically!
